picking out sperm

To keep you all up-to-date, we're getting geared up for another go-around.

This time, we're NOT going to use either of our genetic material.  Docs say this is a sure-fire way we'll be successful.  Also, we're going through extended tests and/or second or third opinions for BM to rule out any issues with womb or her system (ie. any other factors which could influence fertility or a pregnancy, including food allergies, etc.)

There's a lot more to add, however, we'll post more soon, I hope.  For now, we're each picking out sperm or eggs from donor lists at banks - no, they don't yet have ATMs for that - and viewing donor profiles and baby pics.  It's oddly similar (to me) to shopping online for a new car - comparing stats, comparing features and costs (of the cryobanks).

Gotta run - BM's home for lunch.